People spend a lot of time judging. I'm not talking about the once in awhile comments everyone makes while people watching, I'm talking those people who have to have an opinion on everything. Everybody knows that one friend or co worker that has to comment on everything from what you're wearing to what you eat for lunch, to your love life. Girls are notorious for this mentality. And I'm over it. What does what someone is wearing, who they're dating, what they do for a living, or what they weigh have to do with you? Explain to me how it greatly impacts your life? I'll tell you how, it makes you negative; and negativity breeds negativity. You don't know what is going on in that person's life that makes them who they are. Making quick, irrelevant judgments of another person is negative, insecure, and boring. Try saying something positive about someone, or even to them. Sprinkle some positivity into your day, it's contagious. So the next time you feel like bashing someone for their shoes/clothes/hair/lifestyle choices; why don't you re-group, re-evaluate your thinking; and either say something positive, or STFU and mind your own damn business. Mom was right, if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.

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