Comments for Crabs in a Barrel: Friends or Foes? at http://www.urbansteez.com , comment 0 to 3 out of 3 comments http://www.urbansteez.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 06:37:04 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.urbansteez.com/brittani_williams_column/crabs_in_a_barrel_friends_or_foes_.php#pc_960 Funny thing about hating , is that when you are a true hater you never can grow! All my life I was always first to show congrats, and for that more doors have open for me, more people have me in their best interest. Hating is the cousin to being jealous, and men being jealous of another man is rare , the way I was brought up, that was more of a female trait... 8) Moreover haters will be here til the end of time, so don't pay them mind, Continue your pursuit to happiness! When I see a hater all I do is this " ;D " - Ameer Fri, 13 Jun 2008 05:17:06 +0100 http://www.urbansteez.com/brittani_williams_column/crabs_in_a_barrel_friends_or_foes_.php#pc_959 Okay! Now down to the nitty gritty! Yes, I feel the same way and have wanted to write a blog about so called friends that don't mean you well. But at the moment the person I would want to read it, won't see it, I'll have to find a way for this to get sent to their inbox. I too have had friends that have had my momma and my man asking me where do I get friends like this?! I went to an all girls high school and that is where I really learned what being two faced and backstabbing were all about. My good friend slept with almost every dude I dealt with back then behind my back , then turned around and cried to me about it and expected me to comfort her! My other really close friend, whom I would call my sister, my best friend, has given me nothing but headaches over the year anytime she is dealing with a man. Sometimes it's beause they have wanted to deal with me, where I'm seriously not throwing any game back at them, or I get strife over trying to play CAPTAIN SAVE A HO I have been threatened called all types of B@#THCES, etc.. because I have tried to protect my so called friends from men that were abusive in every shape or form. However, she always finds a way to get mad at me, and never comes through when I have needed her , but I always come through for her. I know our main problem is she introduced me to my man , 15 years and counting, and she really was feeling him first. However the day he met me, we decided we were gonna be together, and I have kids by him, lived with him for years and years and basically have what she wants, a family, a man that doesn't beat the SH@#$ out of her and someone to love her and not use her. I allowed her crazy man in my home to visit and helped her relocate and find a job and a crib in two weeks, she turns around and lets the no good triflin ass so and so talk about my daughter who has special needs. If that was me I would have been bashing him in the head with a brick if he talked about my so called niece ! She did nothing. Well long story short, she was pregnant at the time and now her baby died before it was born. I feel sorry for her, but don't people know you don't talk about children when you are having one yourself? Now that she's having problems with her man, oh by the way he's having a baby on her head with another chick after her baby just died two months ago, she calls me crying about how sorry she is and wants me to forgive her, but that's only cuz he was threatening to leave her! Soon as he came back she stopped calling again. I'm tired of forgiving her and I am ready to give her up after being friends for 19 years. I'm just plain ole tired! - Darling Nikkkiii Fri, 13 Jun 2008 00:41:13 +0100 http://www.urbansteez.com/brittani_williams_column/crabs_in_a_barrel_friends_or_foes_.php#pc_958 HI! I want to press send to make sure this will go through before I write a book! Nikki - Darling Nikkkiii Fri, 13 Jun 2008 00:27:56 +0100